Tag Archives: divorce. separation

Why I’m Nice To My Ex-Husband

Right now my ex-husband is in Austria, ski-ing with his friends. His Facebook has photos from the airport, him on a snowy hillside with his arms round a beautiful young girl, and references to how much fun he is having. … Continue reading

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Everything From One?

Is it possible to get everything you need from a romantic relationship from one person? In a recent interview with CNN, Miju Han, a programmer in Silicon Valley, discusses the nature of her “polyamorous” relationship with her fiancĂ©. She describes … Continue reading

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Apathy Grows Quietly

When you’re in a happy and healthy relationship it is easy to lose sight of just how good you have it. You become used to it. One of my favourite songs of all time is “Life Got In The Way” … Continue reading

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Long Lost Love

I count myself as very fortunate that I have experienced romantic love in my life. As a child I was in love with my friend’s big brother, as a teen I was in love with a long haired drummer in … Continue reading

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Speed

There are always question on how fast a relationship should move. How often you should see one another, when certain milestones (declarations of love, meeting the parents, moving in together etc…) should be reached, and how soon things move from … Continue reading

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A Type

I have a “type”. My ex-husband, bless him, finds this hysterically funny. He comes to visit Miss Rose and sees The Boy’s comic books lying around, stacks of animated Marvel films, the Rocket Racoon bobble head I bought him for … Continue reading

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D-Day

Today is the day my divorce is finalised. It is oddly anti-climactic. I don’t know what I expected to happen or how I expected to feel, but not like this. I don’t feel happy, I don’t feel sad, I don’t … Continue reading

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